Iintlobo zabalingiswa kunye neendlela zobudlelwane
Iintlobo zabalingiswa kunye neendlela zobudlelwane zihlolisisa iiarchetypes, iindima, kunye neepateni zoxhumano ezikhokelela kwiiploti zothando kunye neenketho zabafundi.
Le nkqubo ibandakanya amagama e-archetypes zothando (enemies-to-lovers, best-friend-to-lover), iintlobo zokunamathela, iindinamiki zamandla kunye nomvume, iilabel zokuxuba abalingiswa, kunye namanye amagama asetshenziswa ukuchaza indlela abalingiswa baxhumana kwaye batshintsha ngayo kwiingxabano zothando ezidibeneyo.
Abahlobo abanezibonelelo
Isichazi-magama se 'Friends with Benefits' sichaza ubudlelwane phakathi kwabahlobo abazongeza icandelo lobulili okanye umzimba evunyelweyo, ngelixa bexama ukugwema ukuzibophelela kwentando. Oku kuvamile ukuba ngaphakathi kwezibopho eziqhelekileyo zobudlelwane kunye nothando olunamandla, kwaye kunokutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha njengoko iimvakalelo okanye imida zishintsha.
Angst
Uxhalabo kwiincwadi zothando luyintshaba yomvakalelo eyakhiwe ngokulangazela, ukungaqiniseki, okanye ukungqubuzana ngaphakathi phakathi kwabalingani. Yimvakalelo engathandekiyo, kodwa ingamkelekayo, egcina abafundi besabonisa ukuba uthando luzophumelela naziphi na izithintelo.
Bad Boy
'Bad Boy' yimfuziselo yohlobo lwothando: umntu othambileyo, ongaphathi imithetho, onezinto ezibukhali ngaphandle nangomvulo obungabonakali. Uvelisa ukuxinisa phakathi ngenxa yokungaphethe imithetho, imfihlo, okanye ukungqubuzana kwezithethe ezenza ukuba umlingisi ophambili (nomfundi) abone ngaphezulu kwenkcazo enxulumene nento esiboniswe ngaphambili.
Beta Hero
IBeta Hero ngumbonisi wothando onika uzinzo, ukufumaneka ngokomzwelo, kunye nobudlelwane obuxhasayo endaweni yokuziphatha okuqinileyo kwe-alpha. Bahlala bekuthembeka, beqonda nabanye, kwaye bakhula ngamandla amancinci kanye nokuqonda phakathi.
Dual POV
Dual POV (umbono) yindlela yokuxelela ibali eguqula inkqubo yokubaliswa phakathi kwabalingiswa ababini—ngokuqhelekileyo abakhokelela uthando—kuba abafundi bafumana ubudlelwane ukusuka kumacala omabini. Ivumela ukuba ubone iingcinga ezahlukeneyo, izizathu, kunye nokungaqondani okuqhuba isiganeko nomdla.
Femme Fatale
Umfazi fatale ngumfazi otyathisayo, onobumfihlo, onamandla okuguqula abalingiswa abanye kwaye ubangela ukungqubana—ngokuqhelekileyo uvela njengomdla othandekayo ongaphelelwa lithemba, umlingisi opikayo, okanye i-antiheroine kwizinto zothando kunye ne-noir.
Friends-to-Lovers
Friends-to-lovers ngumqobo wothando apho ubuhlobo obuseduze buqala buguquke buye bubudlelwane bothando ngokuhamba kwexesha, ngokukhula kwemvakalelo, amanqaku abalulekileyo, kunye nokuthatha umngcipheko wemvakalelo. Igxininisa ukuthembeka, imbali esabelene ngayo, kunye nomvakalelo wokutshintsha ubudlelwane obukhuselekileyo nobonwayo.
Ghosting
IGhosting lithetha xa umntu eshiyeka ngokungxamisekileyo ukuphendula iifowuni, imiyalezo, okanye iincoko ngaphandle kwenkcazelo. Kwiibali zobudlelwane, oku kudala ukungahambelani kwemicimbi yemvakalelo kunye nengxabano phakathi kwabalinganisi.
HEA (Happy Ever After)
HEA imele “Happy Ever After,” isiphelo sophando lwe-romance apho isibini esiphambili sifumana ulonwabo oluzinzileyo ndawonye. Luyavala iimvakalelo kwaye lunika abafundi isiphelo esinokuthenjwa nethemba.
HFN (Happy For Now)
HFN (Happy For Now) yisiphelo sobudlelwane bothando esishiya isibini sabathandi ndawonye nethemba, kodwa akukho siqinisekiso sokuphela ngonaphakade. Yisigqibo esinethemba, esivulekileyo, esugxile ekuboniseni ukukhula namathuba kunokuba ukuqinisekiswa okupheleleyo.
I-arc yokululama
I-arc yokululama yi-ndlela yokubhala amabali apho umlingisi oneempazamo okanye owenza izinto eziyingozi aqaphele iimpazamo zakhe, athathe uxanduva, aze aguquke ngokuhamba kwexesha—ngamanye amaxesha efumana uxolelo okanye indima entsha kwindaba. Kwiromance, ityala litshintsha ukungxama kube kukuthandana okunzulu njengoko uthando nokukhula kudibaniswa.
I-foil yothando
I-foil yothando ngumlingisi ohlukile ngobuntu bakhe, iinketho, okanye ixabiso, ovelisa ukungafani nomlingisi ophambili ngenjongo yokugqibisa iimpawu, ukudala ukungxama kwothando, okanye ukunceda umlingisi ophambili ukuba akhule. Amafoil anokuba ziimbangi, abangane, okanye abathandi abahlukeneyo, kwaye ukungafani kwabo kwenza iimpawu zomlingisi ophambili zicace ngakumbi.
I-triangle yothando
Ikota yothando yimfanelelo yesiganeko ibali apho abantu abathathu bathandana ngothando, ngokuvamile bekhupha omnye umntu ukuba akhethe phakathi kwabathandayo ababini. Ivelisa ukuxinana ngokomzwelo, ukungqubana kwabalingiswa, kunye nezigqibo ezibukhayo.
Indoda enomfazi ofileyo kwaye engashadanga kwakhona.
Indoda enomfazi ofileyo kwaye engashadanga kwakhona. Kwiincwadi zothando, ii-widower zivamise ukonwabela ukungena kwezibophelelo zobuhlungu, inkumbulo, kunye namathuba okutsha uthando.
Iqhawe elixhalabisayo
Iqhawe elixhalabisayo liyimvelaphi yobudlelwane: ngumlingisi ogcinayo, onesimo semvakalelo esinzulu, izilonda zangaphambili kunye nokuzingca okuthule okuvelisa ukungxama oludinga ixesha lokuvavanywa kunye nokuqhotsa kwemvakalelo ekugqibeleni.
Isitha elilungisiweyo
Isitha elilungisiweyo ngumlingisi oqala njengomphikisi okanye umntu onezithethe zobuziphatha ezingalunganga kodwa ngenxa yokuzisola, ukhetho, okanye ukunikela, utshintsha waba mnandi kwaye waba ngumntu othandwayo—ngokuqhelekileyo uba ngumhlobo othandwayo.
Isithandwa
Isithandwa ngumlingiswa osetyenziswa njengendawo yothando yomlingisi ophambili—omnye wabantu umlingisi ophambili anga kuthandana nabo. Bangaba ngumlingani ophambili, umphikisi, okanye enye yeenketho ezininzi kwindaba enokukhethwa.
Isithinteli
Isithinteli ngumntu, amandla, okanye ukulwa ngaphakathi okuvelisa ukungxamiseka kumlingisi oyintloko kwaye kubangele ukungxamiseka kwindaba. Kwincwadi zothando, izithinteli zingaba zizitha, ukungaqondi, ukoyika ngokobuqu, okanye izimo zangaphandle eziyivavanya ubudlelwane.
Izinto ezahlukeneyo zikhanga
Izinto ezahlukeneyo zikhanga yimfanelo yothando apho abalinganiswa ababili abanemilo ezahlukeneyo, amaxabiso, okanye indlela yokuphila bathandana nomnye nomnye. Uxinzelelo phakathi kwezi ndidi zidala uthando, ukungqubana, kunye nophuhliso lwemvakalelo.
Izitha-zothando
Izitha-zothando yimvakalelo yothando apho abantu ababili baqala njengabaphikisi okanye njengabaxabene kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha bafumana ukutithandana, kwaye ukuguqulwa kubangelwa liqonda elinyanisayo, uxinezelelo lwemeko, okanye ukuveliswa kobudlelwane obungathathi nxaxheba.
Izithandani zobuntwaneni
Izithandani zobuntwaneni ngabantu abafik' ukuhlangana bathandana njengabantwana okanye njengamalutsha, kwaye ubudlelwane babo buqhubeka ebudaleni okanye buvuselelwa kamva. Le trope isekwe kumbali wememori efanayo, ukulindelwe, kunye nombono wothando olukhulayo kunye nabalinganiswa.
Manic Pixie Dream Girl
Manic Pixie Dream Girl (MPDG) ngumlingisi oqhelekileyo—ngokuqhelekileyo ubonakala njengomntu oneminqweno, onzulu, kwaye onomoya wenkululeko—indima yakhe enkulu kukukhuthaza umlingisi ophambili oqatha ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe. Eli gama libonisa umlingisi one-dimension olubekiweyo ukuphucula ukukhula komnye umlingisi.
Slow Burn
I Slow Burn ngumhlobo wothando apho ukutsalwa kunye nobudlelwane bamaxabiso obuziva bakhula kancinci ngokuhamba kwexesha, ngexhala kunye neenkcukacha ezincinci eziqokelelana phambi kokuba ababini bavume iimvakalelo zabo. Lolu hlobo luthandwa ikhemistri eshushu, ukulungelelanisa ixesha ngononophelo, kunye nempasho enelisayo.
UMkhathaleli
UMkhathaleli ngumlingisi uhlobo olubonisa uthando ngokukhathalela, ukukhusela, kunye nenkxaso enokusebenza—ngokuqhelekileyo ngumgcini oqinileyo osiza omnye aphile. Kwiuthando banokudala ubuhlobo obuthambileyo kodwa banokuba sengozini yokungabikho konxulumano okanye ukuxhomekeka ngokudibeneyo.
Ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo
Ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo bubume obamkelweyo apho abafani bavumelana ukuba ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo kunye/nokuba ukuxhumana ngokwesondo nabanye kuvunyelwe ngaphakathi kwemida evunyenweyo. Buzisa ukuthembeka, unxibelelwano, kunye nemithetho evunyenweyo kunokuba kugxininiswe ekubeni umntu bonke babe nobunkunkqisayo.
Ubuhlobo obufihliweyo
Ubuhlobo obufihliweyo bubudlelwane bothando okanye bobulili obugcinwayo phantsi kwabanye abantu. Yinto eqhelekileyo kwimivimbo yothando eyenza ukungxama ngokubeka intshukumo kunye nomdla phambi kwemigaqo, okulindelwe, okanye ingozi.
Ubuhlobo obuxoki
Ubuhlobo obuxoki bubuhlobo bothando apho abantu ababili bezenza njengabathandekayo ngenxa yesizathu sangaphandle—umsebenzi, usapho, uxinzelelo lwentlalo, impazamo, okanye ukulungelelanisa—nangona iimvakalelo zangempela ziqala ukuvela ngaphantsi kolu hlalutyo. Bakhiwe kwizivumelwano, imida, kunye nokuhla kancinci ukusuka ekuqaleni ukwenziwa ukuya kwinyani.
Udonga lwemvakalelo
Udonga lwemvakalelo luyintshaba yokuziva umlingiswa ukuze azivikele ekuulimazweni, ngaloo ndlela lwenza umlingiswa abonakale evaliwe, ogqityiweyo, okanye engafuniyo ukuthembela. Liyindlela eqhelekileyo kwintsomi zothando ekwenza ukungxama kunye nendlela yokukhula njengoko abalingiswa befunda ukuthemba kwakhona.
Ukhanga lwangoko
Ukhanga lwangoko luthathwa njengemvakalelo yokudanisa enamandla, esheshayo—ngomzimba, ngengqondo, okanye ngentliziyo—eyiva phakathi kwabantu babini kwixesha elincinci lokunxibelelana. Kwinto zothando, le nto isetyenziswa njengesikhuthazo esivuselela umdla, ukungxama, okanye uthethathethwano lokuqala, nangaphandle kokuba abalinganisi bazi umzuzu ngamnye ngendlela epheleleyo.
Ukuhlala ndawonye ngenkuthalo
Ukudibanisa abantu ndawonye ngenkuthalo kukuthathwa njengento yezothando apho abalinganiswa babekelwa ukuba bachithe ixesha elide ndawonye ngenxa yesigqibo sangaphandle, okuvulela amathuba okuthanda, ukungavumi, okanye ukuphuhlisa iimvakalelo.
Ukungalingani kwamandla
Ukungalingani kwamandla kwintando yothando kuchaza imeko apho omnye umlingisi ubamba amandla, isikhundla, izixhobo, okanye ulawulo ngaphezulu kunomnye, okuqinisekisa indlela iikhetho nemvume esebenza ngayo ubudlelwane. Yinto eqhelekileyo yokungxenxa kwizinto zothando kodwa ifuna ukulawulwa ngononophelo nangokuziphatha okuhle.
Umcebisi
Umcebisi ngumntu onesipiliyoni, ngokuqhelekileyo omdala, oyiqhuba izakhono, iinketho, okanye inkqubela zengqondo yomlingisi ophambili; kwiincwadi zothando banokuba ngumcebisi ongumhlobo (platonic), isikhokelelo sokutshintsha, okanye umdla wothando olukhulayo kancinci. Umcebisi bakha inkcazo yomlingisi kodwa bavula imibuzo ebalulekileyo malunga namandla nokuvuma xa ubudlelwane bothando buyavuka.
Umdlali
Umdlali ngumzekelo wobudlelwane bothando: umlingiswa onekhono lokukhuthaza, ongafuni ukuzibophelela, kwaye udlala ngeengxoxo zobudlelwane ukuze ugcine ubudlelwane njengento elula.
Umlingisi osikhuthaza utshintsho
Umlingisi osikhuthaza utshintsho ngumntu otshintsha ubomi bomlingisi ophambili—ubeka ibali lithathe inyathelo okanye liphoqe isigqibo esibalulekileyo. Abaninzi abazikho njengomdla wothando ophambili, kodwa bacwangisa iziganeko neemvakalelo ukuba ziqale ukuhamba.
Umlingisi oyintloko
Umlingisi oyintloko ngumbingeleli ophambili apho iinjongo, izigqibo, kunye nohambo lwemvakalelo ziqhuba ibali. Kwi-apps zothando ezisebenzisanayo ezifana ne-Endless Romance, umlingisi oyintloko ngamaxesha amaninzi ngumlingiswa apho umfundi uhlala khona okanye owenziwa ngezikhetho zakhe.
Umntwana ofihliwe
Umntwana ofihliwe yindlela yothando apho umntu oyintloko ufihla ubukho bomntwana (okanye ukukhulelwa) kumlingani ophambili, okuvelisa uxinzelelo, ukungaqondani, kunye namaxesha okubonisa ngokungathí sina.
Umphikisi wothando
Umphikisi wothando ngumntu oxhaphazela umlingisi ophambili ukuze afune ukunakwa ngothando kumntu othile, okuvelisa ukungxamiseka, ukhetho, kunye nezibophelelo zemvakalelo. Abaqhwakeleyo banokuba ziimbangi, izixhaso ezincedisayo, okanye abafihli abafhayo ngokuxhomekeka indlela ibali liphuhlisa ngayo.
Umtshato obuhlelweyo
Umtshato obuhlelweyo lilungu lobudlelwane apho iintsapho, abaxhumanisi, okanye abantu abasemva bedlala indima enkulu ekukhetheni okanye ekwaziseni abafaneleyo—ukusuka kwizithethe zendabuko ukuya kwizicwangciso zanamhlanje apho abantu bakhetha. Kwiincwadi, le trope inika ithuba lokujonga uxanduvo, ukuxhumana, amandla, kunye nokukhula komntu.
Umtshato wesivumelwano
Umtshato wesivumelwano yindlela yokuxelela ibali lokuthandana apho abantu babini batshata ngenxa yezizathu zobuvelwano—imali, isidima, ukhuseleko, okanye izibonelelo zomthetho—kunokuba nothando. Le ntetho ijolise ekuboniseni ukuba iyantlukwano, ukuxhasana, kunye neenjongo ezifanayo zingqinisa ubudlelwane okanye zibangele ukungqubana.
Umzali owedwa
Umzali oyedwa: umlingiswa ophatha ukulisa abantwana abanye okanye abaninzi ngaphandle komlingani ohlala naye endlini. Kwiincwadi zothando, abazali bodwa babeka uxanduva oluthile, iinqwaba zemvakalelo, kunye neengozi zangempela ebudlelwaneni.
Uthando emsebenzini
Uthando emsebenzini luthetha ngobudlelwane bothando okanye bobulili phakathi kwabalingani abasebenza ndawonye, abaphathi nabanye abasebenzi, okanye abantu baxhumana rhoqo ngomsebenzi. Lungabonakala kwiindaba njengothando oluqala ngokuqaqambileyo, uthando olufihliweyo, okanye inzima ebangelwe zizinto zobungcali.
Uthando lwaseMeyi–Disemba
Uthando lwaseMeyi–Disemba (ludla ngokubizwa njengothando lwe-gap yobudala) lubonisa abalingani ababini abeneminyaka ehlukeneyo ngokubanzi, ngokuqhelekileyo omnye useMeyi (omncinci) kwaye omnye useDisemba (omdala). Luhlalutya indlela ubudala, isigaba sobomi, namava kuchaphazela indlela yokuthandana kunye noludibaniso lobudlelwane.
Uthando lwesibini ithuba
Uthando lwesibini lujolise kubathandi ababuyela ndawonye emva kwexesha, ibanga, okanye izimpazamo — bebanika ubudlelwane babo ithuba elinye ngemicimbi emitsha yezemvakalelo. Ezi ndaba zigxile ekukhuleni, ekuphiliseni, kunye nokuba abalinganiswa banokwakha ukuthembana kunye nonxibelelwano kwakhona.
Uthando lwidolophu encincinci
Uthando lwidolophu encincinci lugxile kwiindaba zothando ezenzeka kuluntu oluncinci, olujingene ngokuqinileyo apho indawo nabantu benza umdibaniso ubuhlobo. Le ndawo yenza ubudlelwane bubuya, ubuso obujwayelekileyo, kunye neengxaki zentliziyo ezikhulayo eziqhuba ibali.
Uthando olubandakanya umehluko wobudala
Uthando olubandakanya umehluko wobudala luchaza ubudlelwane bothando apho ababandakanyekileyo banobudala obahlukeneyo ngokubonakalayo—ngokuqhelekileyo kubizwa 'Meyi–Disemba'—kwaye lunokuphonisa ukuba izigaba zobomi, amava, kunye nolindelo zenza ubudlelwane.
Uthando olungaphendulwanga
Uthando olungaphendulwanga luthando lwentliziyo olulodwa apho umntu unothando olukhulu kumntu ongaphenduliyo lowo mntu. Luvakala kwiindaba njengokulangazela, ubuhlungu obuthulileyo, okanye indlela yokukhula komntu othanda yedwa.
Uthando olungavunyelwanga
Uthando olungavunyelwanga luchaza ubudlelwane bothando obuvinjelweyo okanye obungavunyelwa ngenxa yezithintelo zangaphandle—usapho, iklasi yoluntu, isiko, umthetho, okanye ezinye izithintelo ezinamandla. Lwenza ukuba kube yimfihlo, ingozi, kunye nobunzulu beemvakalelo xa abalinganiswa benqumla ukuba bangathetheli na baye bamkele ezi milambo.
Uthando phakathi kukatitshala nomfundi
Uthando phakathi komntu onegunya kwezifundo okanye kwinkqubo yokuqeqesha nomfundi wakhe; ngokuqhelekileyo lubanjwa njengento enqabileyo okanye engavunyelwanga, kwaye luhanjiswa kukungalingani kwamandla, imfihlo, kunye nomvakalelo onamandla.
i-alpha male
i-alpha male yiintlobo eqhelekileyo yothando echaza indoda ethembekileyo, enamandla, kwaye ikhuselayo, umthandi onenkokeli kunye nomtsalane, obangela ukunwaba kunye nengxabano ngenxa yobunkokeli bakhe nomtsalane. Kwixesha langoku lwothando, olu hlobo luthatha indawo ukusuka kwi-CEO ezibandakanyileyo ukuya kubakhuseli abafudumeleyo, kwaye lunokuboniswa njengento enempilo okanye enengxaki ngokuxhomekeka kwimvume kunye nokukhula komlingiswa.
i-polyamori
i-polyamori luhlobo lokuba nabudlelwane obuninzi bothando (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nobudlelwane bezocansi) ngaxesha elinye. Igxila ekuthembekeni, kwimida evunyiweyo, kunye nonxibelelwano oluqhubekayo phakathi kwabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba.