Whakakotahitanga, Ihirangi Ira me te Whakaaetanga
Mō tēnei kāreti, e kapi ana tēnei wāhanga i ngā kupu e whakamārama ana i te whakakotahitanga, te ihirangi ira, ngā tikanga whakaae, me te pēhea o tēnei wāhanga e whakaaturia ai i roto i ngā kōrero romance.
E whakamārama ana ngā tuhinga ki te aromātai ihirangi, ki ngā whakamōhio mō ngā mea e hāngai ana ki te whakaaetanga (trigger warnings), ki ngā mekani o te whakaae, ki ngā rohe, ki te whakaaturanga haumaru me te whakaute ki te ira, me te toha tohu mō te pakeke mō ngā kōrero ā-ipurangi. He mea āwhina ki ngā kaituhi, ki ngā kaiwhakahaere, me ngā kaiwhakamahi e rapu ana i ngā kōwhiringa whakaatu, te whakahaere, me ngā tautuhinga whaiaro i Endless Romance.
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Ahurea o te Whakaaetanga
Ko te ahurea o te whakaaetanga he huinga tikanga pāpori me ngā mahi e arotahi ana ki te whakaaetanga mārama, e haere tonu ana, me te whakaaetanga tahi i roto i ngā taunekeneke whaiaro me ngā taunekeneke aroha. E whakanui ana i te kōrero, ki te whakarite i ngā rohe, me te tika ki te hurihuri o ōu whakaaro i ngā wā katoa.
Aroha kati te tatau
Ko te 'Aroha kati te tatau' e tohu ana ki ngā wā o te noho tahi me te noho tata ā-rāpoi, ā, e whakaarohia ana kāore e whakaaturia mārama — ko te mahi e haere ana ki waho o te whārangi, ki waho o te mata, ā, ko te arotahi o te kōrero ki te wā o te mōhio, te whakaae, me te muri o tēnei kaupapa. He tikanga noa tēnei hei whakaputa i te hononga hinengaro me te karo i te whakaaturanga mōmori.
Aroha ā-tau rerekē
Ko te aroha ā-tau rerekē e whakaatu ana i ngā hononga aroha, ā-tinana rānei i waenganui i ngā hoa e rerekē nui ana te pakeke. I ngā pūrākau, ka mārama te kare-a-roto, te mana o ngā tāngata, me ngā tumanako ā-iwi e pā ana ki ngā hononga kei te rerekē te pakeke.
Consent Retcon
Ko te consent retcon te mea i muri ake nei i tētahi kōrero ka whakarerekētia, ka whakamāori anō tētahi wāhanga o mua kia tohu ai ko te mahi he whakaaetanga, ahakoa i mua kāore i tino whakaaetanga.
Fade-to-Black
Ko te Fade-to-Black tētahi tikanga kōrero e mutu ai te wāhanga i mua i te whakaaturanga o ngā mahi ā-tinana, kia mōhio te pānui ki ngā mea e whai ake. Ka pupuri i te wairua o te wāhanga me te noho muna i te wā e kore e whakaaturia ngā taipitopito.
Gray-Area Consent
Ko te whakaaetanga i te rohe pōuri e whakamārama ana i ngā wā o te noho tahi tāngata wā anō, i te mea kāore e mārama, e pōhēhē rānei te hiahia ki te whakaae, ā, e kīhia ana i runga i ngā tohu kore mōhio. Kei waenganui i te whakaaetanga mārama (explicit consent) me te whakakore mārama (clear refusal), ā, he maha ngā wā ka painga ai te pēhia, ngā tohu rereke, rānei te ngoikore o te kaha ki te whakaae.
Here erotika
Ko te here erotika te mōhiotanga kaha, te mōhio ki mua i waenga i ngā tangata e tohu ana ki te mea pea mō te here rānei mō te hoa, kāore i te mea e mārō. Ko te here o te ngākau me te tinana e here ana ki te mea ka tutuki te aroha.
Intimacy Arc
Ko te aronga intimacy te huarahi e tupu ai te piri o ngā tangata e rua i roto i tētahi pūrākau, ā-hā o te ngākau, ā-tinana, me te here.
Intimacy Trigger
Ko te whakaohooho intimacy he wāhanga kōrero e whakaatu ana, e tohu ana rānei ki ngā mahi kāore i te whakaaetanga, ki te kino o te whakapā tinana, ki ētahi wheako mamae e pā ana ki te whanaungatanga tinana me te kare-a-roto—he mea e taea ai te whakapiki i te mōrearea nui mō ētahi pānui. Ko ngā whakamōhio ihirangi me ngā kōwhiringa haumaru e āwhina ana i ngā pānui kia karo, kia whakarite rānei i ēnei wāhanga.
Kink kua whakaaetia
Ko te kink kua whakaaetia te tikanga o te kōrero mārama me te whakaae ki ngā hiahia, ngā herenga, me ngā tikanga haumaru i mua i te uru ki ngā mahi kink, BDSM rānei. E whakatauhia ana ki te kōrero mārama, te whakaae mōhio, me te manaaki i muri ki te pupuri i te haumarutanga me te whakaute o ngā hoa katoa.
Kink-Positive Romance
Ko te romā kink-positve he tētahi wāhanga-āhua me te huarahi ki te kōrero aroha e whakaatu ana i ngā hiahia kink mō te hunga pakeke i runga i te whakaute, kāore he stigma. Ka arotahi ki te kōrero, te whakaae, te haumaru, me te whakamana kaha (enthusiastic consent) hei wāhanga o te whanaungatanga.
Kore ōrite te kaha
Ko te kore ōrite te kaha e whakaatu ana i ngā wā e noho ai tētahi tangata he nui ake te mana, te awe, ngā rauemi, rānei te ngoikore i tētahi atu, ā, e pā ki te āhei ki te tuku whakaaetanga me ngā kōwhiringa.
Kupu haumaru
Ko te kupu haumaru he kupu rānei tohu kua whakaae mua hei whakamahi ki te whakatāhia, ki te whakamutu i tētahi wāhanga piri, kaha, rānei te whakatangata tūranga. Mā tēnei e waihanga ai tētahi huarahi mārama, kore e rua te kīanga mō ō rātou rohe, me te tiaki i te haumaru tinana me te wairua o tētehi tangata.
Kōrero ira tangata
Ko te kōrero ira tangata te whakawhiti kōrero mārama, ā-roa mō ngā herenga, ngā hiahia, ngā rohe, te haumaru, me te whakaaetanga i waenganui i ngā hoa. Kei roto hoki ngā tohu ā-waha me ngā tohu kāore i te kupu, ā, he wāhanga matua o ngā hononga tata whai hauora.
Mana whakahaere hākena
Ko te mana whakahaere hākena te āhei o tētahi ki te whiriwhiri mō ō rātou ake kare ā-roto hākena, ngā mahi, me ngā rohe, i runga i te mōhio, te kore pēhanga, me te āhei ki te panoni i ō rātou whakaaro i ngā wā katoa.
Microwhakaaetanga
Ko te microwhakaaetanga te tikanga ki te ui me te whiwhi i ngā whakaaetanga iti, ā-wā i roto i tētahi taunekeneke—nō te mea i ngā wāhanga piri—kia mārama te whakaaetanga mō ia taahutanga e te hunga whai wāhi ana.
Mutual Consent Sex
Ko te whakaae tahi ki te noho mō te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te haere tahi, ā, i runga i te mōhio, me te hiahia mārama, me te whakamahi i te whakaaetanga e haere tonu. E arotahi ana ki te whakawhiti kōrero, te whakaute i ngā rohe, me te āhei ki te aukati i ngā wā katoa.
Mutual Masturbation
Ko te māhakiāwhio tahi e rua he mahi ira e whakaae ana ngā hoa ki a rātou anō ki te whakapakari i ō rātou ake tinana i te wā e noho tahi ai rātou. He mea whakamahia nuitia hei whakapakari i te noho tahi, ki te torotoro i ngā rohe, me te tūruhi i te rekareka without intercourse.
Ngā Kaupapa Kore Whakaaetanga (NC)
Ko ngā kaupapa kore whakaaetanga (NC) e tohu ana ki ngā wāhanga kōrero e whakaatu ana i te mahi ira-tinana, te aroha rānei, kāore he whakaae mārama, rānei e pā ana ki te herekore, te whakahaere, me te kino. Ko te kupu 'NC' e tohu ana ki tēnei ihirangi mō ētahi kaipānui.
Ngā herenga whaiaro
Ko ngā herenga whaiaro te rohe ake e whakatakotohia ana e te tangata ki tō tinana, ki ō kare ā-roto, ki te wā, me tō ao mamati, kia rongo haumaru me te mōhio i roto i ngā hononga.
Ngā tohu erotika mō ā muri ake nei
Ko ngā tohu erotika mō ā muri ake nei he tikanga kōrero e whakatere ana i ngā tohu mīharo mō ngā wā tata o te noho tahi ki te whakakakahu i te wawata me te here o te ngākau, kāore e whakaatu i ngā mahi mākū. Ka whakamahi i ngā taipitopito ā-tinana, ngā tohu tinana, me ngā mōemoeā tohu hei whakarite i te kaipānui mō ngā mea ka tae mai.
Ngā wāhanga whakaaetanga e kore e mārama
Ko ngā wāhanga whakaaetanga e kore e mārama he wā i roto i ngā kōrero pakiwaitara e kore e mōhiotia mēnā kei te whakaae katoa ki te noho tata, ki te mahi taikaha rānei, ki te ira tangata.
Ngā Āhuatanga BDSM
Ngā āhuatanga BDSM e tohu ana ki ngā tikanga whakaae me ngā āhua e pā ana ki te herehere me te whakahaere (B/D), te rangatiratanga me te tuku (D/S), me te mōrearea me te māhaki (S/M) e puta ana hei kaupapa, āhua, rānei i roto i ngā pūrākau aroha.
Ngā āhuatanga o te whakaaetanga
Ko ngā āhuatanga o te whakaaetanga e whakamārama ana ki te pēhea e whakaae ai, ki ngā rohe me te kōrero e mahia ana i roto i ngā whakawhāinga aroha, kāore rānei i roto i ngā hononga tangata. Kei roto hoki ngā tohu ā-waha me ngā tohu kore ā-waha, te mana e tohatoha ana, me te noho tonotono o te whakaae.
Polyamori Whakawhanaungatanga
Ko te polyamori intimacy e whakaatu ana i te tata o te ngākau me te tinana i waenga i ngā pakeke kua whakaae ki ngā hononga neke atu i te rua. E arotahi ana ki te whakawhiti kōrero, ki ngā rohe kua whakaaetia, me te whakaae tonutanga, kāore e whakapae ki ngā tikanga monogāmi.
Pārekareka ā-ngākau
Ko te pārekareka ā-ngākau te mōhiotanga ki te tata, ki te whakawhirinaki, me te noho ngākau ki ta te tangata kē e rua i te wā e whakapuaki ana i ō rātou kare-ā-wairua, e whakarongo ana, e whakautu ana ki tētahi. Ka waihanga tēnei i runga i te kōrero pono, te manaaki, me te wātea ā-ngākau āpiti ake i ngā wā katoa, kāore i te mea noa te whakapā tinana.
Queer Intimacy
Ko te piri queer e whakaatu ana i te piri o te hinengaro, o te tinana, me te hononga i waenga i ngā tāngata e mōhiotia ana ki te LGBTQ+—tae atu ki ngā kaha aroha, ngā āhua whakamau, me ngā mea kore-ā-tinana i runga i te tuakiri, horopaki, me te whakaae.
Rangatiratanga o te tinana
Ko te rangatiratanga o te tinana te mana ki te whakatau mō tō tinana ake, tae atu ki ngā rohe ā-tinana, ngā kōwhiringa hauora, me te paunga ā-tinana. I roto i ngā pakiwaitara aroha, ko te tikanga ka taea e ngā tangata te whakaae, te kore, me te whakawhitiwhiti mō te paunga ā-tinana, kāore he herehere.
Reanga Wera
Ko te Reanga Wera he tohu e whakamārama ana ki te pēhea te kaha o te ihirangi aroha me te ira i roto i tētahi kōrero, mai i te māmā ki te tino erotika. Mā tēnei e āwhina ai ngā kaimātakitaki ki te kimi kōrero e taunoa ana ki ō rātou hiahia me ō rātou wairua.
Rārangi Whakaaetanga
Ko te Rārangi Whakaaetanga he rārangi māmā o ngā mea mārama e whakamahia ana ki te whakamana i te whakaaetanga tahi, mārama, me te hiahia ki te whai wāhi i mua i ngā mahi ā-tihi. E āwhina ana ki ngā hoa ki te kōrero mō ngā rohe, ngā tūmanako, me ngā whakaritenga haumaru i runga i te ara mārama.
Taipitopito ā-tinana
Ko te taipitopito ā-tinana te whakamahi i ngā mea motuhake e kitea ana, ngā oro e rongo ana, ngā kakara, ngā reka, me ngā pangā o te tinana ki te whakakaha i tētahi wāhitau kia mārama, kia tere te noho.
Te here ā-tinana
Ko te here ā-tinana te herehere hihiri, mōrearea, me te ngākau me te tinana i waenga i ngā tangata e kore anō kia mahia. Ka waihangia nā te hiahia kāore i kī, te tata, me ngā hiahia e whakataetae ana, ā, ka waihanga tēnei i te tatari me te whakapau kaha ki roto i tētahi pūrākau aroha.
Te tirohanga o te rūma moe
Ko te tirohanga o te rūma moe he wāhanga o tētahi pūrongo i roto i te wāhi motuhake—i te nuinga o te wā, he rūma moe—e whakaatu ana i te piri o ngā tangata ki te ngākau, ki te tinana, me te kōrero motuhake. Ka taea te rere mai i tētahi whakawhitiāwhi māhaki ki tētahi huranga nui o te whanaungatanga, ā, me noho tonu te whakaaetanga me te mana whakahaere o ngā tangata ki te pokapū o tēnei āhua.
Te āhei ki te whakaae
Ko te āhei ki te whakaae te mea e mōhio ana te tangata ki te mārama ki ngā mea e whakaarohia ana, ki te kōwhiri, ki te whakaae ki ngā mahi ira tangata, me te noho ki raro i te herekoretanga. E hiahiatia ana te mārama pai, te kōwhiringa rangimarie, me te kore herea e te ngoikoretanga, te herea rānei.
Tere o te wāhanga ā-tinana
Ko te tere o te wāhanga ā-tinana te tempo me te whanaketanga o tētahi wāhanga aroha — te pēhea te tere o te neke mai i te aro ki te whakapā tinana, me te wā e wehewehea ai te whakatāunga, te poke, me te muri o taua wāhanga. E taurite ana tēnei ki ngā taipitopito ākau, ngā mōmoe kare ā-roto, me ngā tohu whakaae, kia waihangatia he wā e mākona, e pono ai mō ngā kāpō.
Tiaki whai muri
Ko te tiaki whai muri te tautoko ā-hinengaro me ā-tinana e hoatu ana e ngā hoa ki a rātou anō i muri i tētahi wāhanga kaha, iētahi wā piri, i tētahi tautohetohe, rānei, me te wā i kaha ake te māharahara.
Trigger Warning / Content Note
Ko tētahi whakamōhio poto i mua mō tētahi kōrero, wāhanga rānei e tohu ana ki ngā kaupapa e kaha te whakararuraru i te hinengaro o te kaipānui. Hei tauira, ngā kaupapa e pā ki te pūmau ā-hinengaro, te whakahoa i te tangata, te mate i ngā taikaha, me ētahi atu mea kino.
Whakaaetanga
Ko te Whakaaetanga he whakaaetanga mārama, whai wāhi ki ngā mahi ā-tinana, ā-aroha rānei; me mōhio, he ngākau ngākau, ā, ka taea te whakahokia i tēnei wā. I roto i ngā kōrero aroha, ko te Whakaaetanga e tohu ana i ngā tangata e kōrero ana, me te whakanui i ō rātou rohe.
Whakaaetanga Anō
Ko te Whakaaetanga Anō te mea e tirotiro ana i te wā i mua i te haere tonu, a ki te tiki anō i te whakaaetanga i te wā e hiahia ana ki te whakarerekē rānei i tētahi whakawhitinga taunoa.
Whakaaetanga i whakawhitiwhitia
Ko te Whakaaetanga i whakawhitiwhitia he whakaaetanga mārama, ā-wahānui i waenga i ngā tāngata mō ngā momo taunoa tinana me te taunoa hinengaro e pai ana ki a rātou — he mea mārama, whakaute, ā, ka arotakehia anō ki te hiahiatia. E aro ana ki te kōrero, ki ngā rohe, me te mana ki te huri i ōu whakaaro i ngā wā katoa.
Whakaaetanga kore-kupu
Ko te Whakaaetanga kore-kupu te whakaaetanga i tukuna kāore i ngā kupu, e whakaaturia ana mā te reo tinana mārama, ngā mahi, me te urutau ā-tangata. He whai mana mēnā he ngākau pārekareka, he mōhio, ā, kāore i te mārama ki te mea e kore e whakaarohia nā te noho paki, te kore whakahinga.
Whakaaetanga mārama
Ko te whakaaetanga mārama te mea he 'ae' kaha, mōhio, ā, e homai ana e te tangata ki ngā mahi whakawhitiwhiti ira. E hiahiatia ana te whakaae mārama i mua i te mea ki te wewete i ngā mea taiao, ā, ka taea te tango mai i ngā wā katoa.
Whakaaetanga ngākau nui
Ko te Whakaaetanga ngākau nui he ‘ae mārama, nā te tangata ake i tuku, ā, he tohu pai’ ki te mahi ā-tinana/āwhiwhi kia noho tahi—e whakaatu ana mā ngā kupu me ngā mahi ngākau nui. E arotau ana ki te whakaae kaha me te hiahia tahi o ngā tāngata katoa, kāore i te noho ki te pōuri, te korehere, rānei.
Whakaaetanga ā-waha
Ko te whakaaetanga ā-waha he whakaaetanga mārama, kua kīhia ki te reo ki te uru ki tētahi mahi taurekareka motuhake. E kīa ana e te tangata tokorua te 'āe', e mārama ki te mea e whakaae ana, ā, ka taea te huri i ō rātou whakaaro i ngā wā katoa.
Whakaaturanga Wera
Ko te wā wera he wā i roto i tētahi pūrākau aroha e arotahi ana ki te herehere hinengaro me te kare-ā-roto, ā, iētahi wā e tohu ana, e whakaatu ana i te mahi ira, kāore i ngā taipitopito mārama. Ka whakamahia ngā taipitopito wheako tinana me te tere o te wā ki te whakapiki i te here me ngā taumata kāore i te tinana i waenga i ngā tangata.
Whakakaha
Ko te whakakaha te wā e whakamahi ai tētahi i te pēhanga, ngā mōrearea, te whakahaere, rānei te tūkino o te mana ki te whakaawea i tētahi atu ki te mahi i tētahi mea i runga i tana hiahia. I roto i ngā horopaki o te pārekareka me te whakaaetanga, ko te tikanga kāore te whakaaetanga i te mea motuhake, ā, nō reira kāore i te here.
Whakakotahitanga ā-tinana
Ko te whakakotahitanga ā-tinana te whānuitanga o ngā tohu aroha ā-tinana i waenganui i ngā tāngata — mai i te pupuri ringa, te piri, ki te kī, me ētahi atu mahi ā-tinana — i raro i te whakaae tahi me te rangimārie ki a te katoa. I roto i ngā kōrero aroha, e whakaatu ana tēnei i te tata o te kare-ā-roto me ngā whakaritenga o te tangata, kāore e here ki te mea ā-tinana anake.
Whakatikanga me te Whakaaetanga Hou
Ko te whakatikanga me te whakaaetanga hou ngā taahiraa e mahia ana e ngā hoa i muri i tētahi rohe kua ngaro te māramatanga, rānei: ko te whakatikanga te aro ki te kino, te whakahou i te whakawhirinaki, ā, ko te Whakaaetanga Hou te whakaaetanga mārama ki te timata anō i te noho tata. He mea haere tonu ēnei mahinga e arotahi ana ki te kōrero, ki te kawenga, ki te haumarutanga.
Whakawhiti Mana
Ko te Whakawhiti Mana te āhua hononga e whakaaehia ana, e whakamahia ana e ngā hoa ki te whakawhiti i ngā taumata mana, mō tētahi wā, mō tētahi tūnga, rānei mō tētahi whakarite haere tonu. E arotahi ana ki te whiriwhiringa, ki ngā rohe, ki te whakaaetanga tahi, kāore i runga i te herea.
Wāhanga Ira Tangata Mārama
Ko te wāhanga ira tangata mārama he wāhanga tuhi e whakaatu ana i ngā mahi ira tangata i waenganui i ngā pakeke e whakaae ana, i roto i ngā kupu mārama, tika, kāore e tohu ki te mea e tupu ana. I roto i ngā pūrākau aroha, ka arotahi ēnei wāhanga ki te painga tinana, ā, he maha ngā taipitopito mō te pānga, te neke, me ngā kōrero hei whakaatu i te tūtaki.