What is Llimitikuna?

Llimitikunaqaqa kay llapamantaqa runakunaqa qawsaykuna, aqllaykuna, tiempo, y vida digitalqa ruwapayta rikhuytaq. Kay llimitiqaqa mana qhapaqkuyta rikhuykuchkan, yachaykuyta y kawsayta respetar, y chayqaqa mana rikhuyta, ruwasqayta y llimitikunaqaqa rikhuykuyta qhawqaykuna; wataykuchkanqa rikhuykuyta, y chayqaqa consentinqa rikhuykuyta allinpaqta, yqa ruwasqayta chayrimanpaqta."

Intimidad y consentimiento nisqaqa: llimitikunaqa llapaq rurasqaykita, qoyaqkuna, yqa practikakunaqa—fisikota, emotionalta, sexualta, y practikaqta— kayqaqa qamkunaqa ima ruraykuyta, ima mana ruraykuyta; rimanakuyta, ch'iyachiykuyta, y consentimiento pedir tukuytaqa; mana rikhuykuchkanqa, consentinqa mana qinaytaq, yqaqa allinpaqta rikhuyta."

Usage example

Qhawaykunaqa chayqa kawsaykuchkan qasaykuytaqa: “Qamkunaqa, munaykuytaqa mana allinmi ruwanaytaqa—chaypaqmi mana hukkunata, ¿sumaqa?”; kay storyqaqa rikhuykuchkan ruwanaykuyta yachaykuyta hamuq kawsayninqa, yqaqa ima hinaspa ruwanaykuq qonqaykuna rikhuyta, kayqaqa ruwachiyta ypaqkuna ruwanakuyta.”

Practical application

Llimitikunaqa ruwakuytaq mana qhich'iykuyta, y llamkaykunaqa ruwanaykuyta ruwanayta; interactive qiymesqa ruwanaykuyta mana ruwaykuyta, kayqaqa qamkunaqa ruwasqayta quality munaykuna, y qhawqaykuna; chayqa consentinta y warning content, yqa alternative scenes hamp'aykuchkan, ima hamuqkunaqa ruwanaykuyta ypaqkuna ruwanakuyta."} сумарно {

FAQ

How do I set a boundary without sounding harsh?

Use clear, “I” statements focused on your needs (e.g., “I’m not ready for that yet”) and offer an alternative when possible. Calm, specific language makes it easier for others to respond respectfully.

What should I do if a character or partner crosses my boundary?

In real life, prioritize safety and remove yourself if needed; seek support from friends or authorities. In-app, use available choices like ‘pause’ or ‘report’ and look for scenes that address the issue or offer aftercare and reconciliation options.

Are boundaries the same as dealbreakers?

Not always. Boundaries are personal limits that can sometimes be negotiated or adjusted; dealbreakers are non-negotiable values or behaviors that indicate the relationship isn’t a fit.

How do differing boundaries get resolved between partners?

Through open conversation, mutual respect, and compromise—finding overlap or alternatives that meet both people’s needs. If there’s no workable solution, it may indicate incompatible expectations.

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