Udikira Apaoyenera Nyimbo: momwe Maitiro a Kudalirana Anasintha Kuchokera ku Regency Kupita ku Apps
Dzaninso mpokoma wokhetsa womwe ungulira mʼmalinga kukhudza chinsinsi: mukhoza kudziwa kale kukhala nkhani: kudalirana ndi kusanthula pang’ono ngati kukhudza ndi kutukuka.
Mbiri imabweretsa zovala zamtengo wachenjera za misamala yomwe maburomu a romance amakonda kunena komanso kusewera patsamba. KomaKodi ndiye mwanzeru wochuluka mwa nsembe kapena chinala chachikulu? Tiyeni tipite kuchokera ku minda ya mkwiyo ya ma wigs kupita ku ma push notifications, ndikufufuza njira zachibale zomwe zikulirapo ndiponso chifukwa chake malamulo amenewo amapitira mtima wathu.
Mpando watsopano wa kudalirana: zomwe mabuku amakwezera mwachilengedwe ya mbiri
Romance ya mbiri imakhudza zolankhula zenizeni kuchokera muzinthu zenizeni za anthu, kenako zikusandulika ndikumwang’ana mpaka zikhale zothandiza kuwala. Izi ndi zofunikira zomwe mumawona kawirikwi ndipo zimawerengedwa mumtunda wa mbiri.
Zomenera zoyenda mʼchipinda chachikondi: kuunikira kwa kulimbikitsa
Poganiza pachifukwacho, chipinda cha mʼnyumba chakhala ngati homwe: mkazi wina adzapereka mʼnyimbo ya waltz, kudutsa kozizira mzinthu, zambiri ziwira patalika chiyembekezo. Mʼmbiri, maball adakhazikika m'madera a munkhalidwe apakati, malo olakwa a chithunzi, kukhalapamwamba ndi kukoma kwathu zinalembedwa mʼmosta. Kudalira maganizo kumbukila momwe aliyense anagwirira ntchito pankhope kuti adzilankhule ndi wina. Nyumba zathandiza mkazi kuti azikhalira padyo popanda kusokonekera ndipo zikhoza kuchita banja kuganiza, kukhazikitsa maonekedwe, ndiponso kupezeka.
zomwe zachikondi zimawonjezera ndi mphamvu. Olemba amasike ola za zochita motsatizana ndi kuderera, ndipo pamenepo chiphunzitso chimakhala chofuna kupanga nkhani. Zolinga zimakhala zomwe zimapangitsa chemistry kukhala momwemo.
Mabuku, mauthenga osawikira, ndi ustawilo wa kukhulupilira
Pbefore DMs ndi zizindikiro za typing, mabuku anali ndalama za kudalira mtima. Chikalata chokhacho chonyamula zolimba pa mtima kuchokera kuchitukuko ndi zifukwa za anzawo. Muzaka, mabuku amatha kuwunika ndi makhanseli, kapena kugwiritsidwa ntchito monga umboni mu malonda a banja. Inali zokhudzana ndi mtima komanso bwino.
Chidwi chachikondi mwachikondi kapena cholemba chomwe chinachita chikondi kukhala chikhalidwe. Wovuta wa mʼtsogolo wa pa uthenga uwu ndi kupereka chisomo zimapangitsa kwambiri chifukwa imayamba ndikukhazikitsa mtamando mwambo.
Chaperones ndi chisamaliro cha anthu: zotsatira za chidwala cha chiyambiri
Miyambo ya Regency ndi Victorian inayangʼana mu mwambo womwe unayenderane ndi kuonetsetsa ndi chaperones, akazi amayi, ndi mbiri ya banja. Izi zimatenga anthu chifukwa cha chitukuko kapena kukhazikitsidwa kwa malonda.
Zolemba zimakonda chaperone monga chinthu: chivuta chomwe chikulunjika kuwala kwa mashimo, ulendo wotsatira, ndi chiopsezo chonyansa cha kuonedwa pamodzi. Nthawi zimapangitsa kulimbikitsidwa kwa kutsutsa mosamala watsopano popanda kutulutsa dziko limene likutsimikiza anthu moyenera.
Mlongo, zipikitsira, ndi zovuta za ufulu: chithunzi cha mtendere
Mabango, ma pistola pa mphepo, chizolowezi cha uteki wochuluka kuchokera kwa woyamba kupikisana. Mʼmbiri, mabanja omwe amatha nkhani ya ulemu pa magulu ena sakhala za chikhulupiro. Zinali ndi zotsatira zilizonse ndipo zimakhazikitsidwa ndi chiwerengero.
Maphunziro a chikondi amasintheka mu nthawi iyi kukhala cholinga: Ndingathe kukhuluso chilichonse chosasungidwa.
Doliyiwale, zokwatira, ndi zachikhalidwe za mabanja
Mabungwe omwe alankhula mwachibadwa anali maalliance a anthu ake. Zinthu monga maphunziro, dziko, titles, ndi makhalidwe a anthu zinalimbitsa momwe anthu ankayang'ana chiyembekezo. Ineyo chodabwitsa chomwecho chikuwululira mwachindunji mu ntchitoyi: chikondi kuposa chilolezo.
Owerenga amamva mwambo wosiyidwa chifukwa zimapangitsa chikondi kukhala vuto loyankha. Kodi chikondi zimaulula pantchito? Yankho limatenga chikhulupiriro cha ufulu ndi kukwaniritsa kwa chikondi.
Kuchoka kuchoka ku msika woyenda ku pulogalamu zapa intaneti: momwe malamulo amakhalira
Kudalirana kwa anthu sanawononge koma anasiyanasiyana. Ulendo wopanda kuchita unakhala kumbuyo kwa mukamphasidwa, chithunzi chipereka ku Instagram, ndi chenicheni cha chaperone m'maganizo a za kulankhula, kukankhidziwa, ndi mawonekedwe a kulankhula mu anthu.
- Mabuku tsopano ndi ma text omwe amatha kukwaniritsa ndipo amatha kuchotsedwa momasuka, koma lozanga zatsopano zili: yankho lachinsinsi limakhala lomwe limakhala.
- Salad oyamba amakhala kudzera m'mabweni komanso anthu amene amadziwika oyambira, kuphatikizira zovala, zithunzi zomwe zikusonyezetsa mtundu ndi chisankho.
- Ulamuliro wa public scandal wawenda kuchokera ku mbiri ya chikhalidwe chodzikira kukhala ma viral moments, kukonza zovuta koma kukhazikitsa manthwe a tsogolo.
Khalidwe ichi chisanathe chifukwa chikusonyeza kuti Regency kapena Victorian zili kofunikira. Zinthu zomwe zili zambiri zikusiyana, koma choreography yakhalapo yonse kukhala pafupi motere: kukambirana ndi mawonekedwe, kusamalira mbiri ya anthu, kupanga nthawi ya kulumikizana.
Chifukwa chachikondi cha zinthu zoyambirira zimapangitsa chikhumbo cha pano chilichonse
Pali kafukufuku wa maganizo pansi pa chiffon ndi mapepala. Zinthu zimapangitsa chikondi kukhala cha cholinga. Zibweretsa chosakhulupirika kukhala nkhani yokhala ndi zigawo zomwe bongo limakonda: kumanizira, kusamvana, kusiya, kulalikira, chisanu.
Ndi zifukwa zambiri zimenezi zimapangitsa ma tropes zinthu zosasiyana:
- Kusunga malire kumapangitsa chidwi. Mitemo ndi malire amatamba zotsatira zakhama pa kulankhula kochuluka mtima. Pamenepo munthu akakhala odzaza ndi kuvuta, chilichonse chimapindula ndi kupindula.
- Kutsogolera kwa ntchito kumawonjezera chisangalalo. Msonkho, ulendo, mlongo kapena kalata yakuthumba zimakhala ndi zovuta za sayansi. Ntchito yovutitsa yokhudza zimachititsa kukhala ofunikira chifukwa chimakhala chinthu chaikulu.
- Language ndi chinsinsi chimafatsa mtima. Kudziwikirana kwa mtima kudzera m'mabuku kapena ziganizo zophwya zimakhala zosangalatsa kuposa zimene zimapangitsa mantha.
- Zosintha za aesthetics zimakhudza. Mizere ya nyengo - nsalu, mkadzi, m'matabwa, ngalande - zimakopa omwe akufuna kudalandira mwapadera.
- Mankhwala a mphamvu ndi kukambirana ndi omvera. Zolinga zakale zimathandiza kufufuza za chilungamo, mphamvu, ndi kuyimitsa mphamvu zingachititse maonekedwe pomwe mkazi wonyenga akulimbikitsa kulimbikitsa.
Owerenga amasomozamgeni amakonda kulemba ntchito zenizeni kwa mtima wamakono. Izi zikutanthauza poyimitsa chilungamo, kufufuza zinthu za mbiri, ndikupanga malingaliro a zolinga za diversi mu mawonekedwe chakale. Zolinga za malamulo zimapita kuti tipeze zolinga zowonjezera zakufuna.
Kodi kudzera mu fantasiyo kukhulupirira panthawi zabwino kwambiri ndi chiyani
Ngakhale mukufuna kudziulula ndi chisangalalo, kutsatira zenizeni zomwe zakhala zikugwirizana. Zikhalidwe za kale za mankhwala adzح, koma tidzaonedwa chifukwa cha chinyengo. Xyola zochepa:
- Nyumba za zizindikiro zomwe zimapangitsa malo kukhala wamphamvu. LOL: zochita ndi mawu zimathandiza kukhazikitsa zisankho zanu.
- Zindikirani momwe mabuku atamvera mphamvu. Kodi anthu ali ndi njira zovomerezeka, kapena akudikirira kusungidwa ngati zino? Zinthu zili bwino, koma zimapangitsa momwe nkhani ikhalira.
- Sangalalani pakati pa zizindikiro za anthu mukufuna kuthana ndi zomwe anthu amafuna m'moyo wanu. Zinthu zambiri zimakhala zophweka,
- Yesani kulankhula za kuchokera mʼmbali mwa nthawi. Lowani mu ntchito zomwe zingaphatikize zosowa za nthawi, ngati zithunzi zoyenera, ndi chinthu chimene chimakula.
Nthawi ndi kulankhula pa intaneti
Kudalirana koyambirira kwa anthu kwatha mwana nawo paulendo watsopano, koma zatheka kukhala zosiyanasiyana. Kaya mukufuna kulankhula mu chisoni m'dera la mthunzi mwa mmene, kapena kulandira wofanana pa pulogalamu, kusiyana kwake ndi mwina, ndiye okayola. Zinthu zokongola zimakhala zotsimikiza: awiri awiri adzapezana mwachinsinsi zomwe zimapangitsa kulankhula kwake kukhala kwathunthu.
Endless Romance imalowetsa malamulo ano kukhala zisankho zotheka, zimapangitsa inu kusewera zikumveka: kupitirizabe kuphada, kupweteketsa, kapena kulemba zolemba zachinsinsi ndikumaliza momwe malamulo amakhalira.
Lembani zabwino zakale pakumveka, zoti mukhale ndi chidwi cha chinthu, ndipo mukumbukire kuti chilichonse chatha, iwe ndi munyankhu wa kukalembani zokonda zanu.
Salomi
Story Lead
Salomi ndi wakhulupirira mwakhama kuti ulendo waukulu uli m’mtima mwake ndipo ndi nkhani ya chikondi. Monga Woyang’anira Nkhani ya Endless Romance, wazikapereka ku kufufuza njira zosatha zimene anthu amakhalira m’chikondi kapena kuchoka m’chikondi. Kuyambira pa kusamvedwa kwa nthawi yotheka ya m’parlour ya Victorian kupita ku chikondi cha kwambiri cha nkhondo ya mtsogolo, ntchitoyi ya Salomi ikuyang’ana pa zigawo za mtima zomwe zimapangitsa nkhani kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse mutatha gawo lopanga.